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Expanding Our Idea of Partnered Sex For people who desire an active sex life, it can be frustrating to feel like you are in a rut or want to change things up and don’t know where to start. Regardless of why, it’s always a good time to re-evaluate and reframe how we think about partnered sex [...]

Fingering, butt plugs, anal beads, pegging – there are numerous things you might think of when the subject of butt stuff comes up. But you don’t have to dive deep to enjoy your ass. In fact, you can keep your anal play entirely external. From fingertips, to sex toys, to rimming, here’s an overview of the [...]

The A-spot, or AFE zone, is one of the most underrated erogenous zones in existence. It’s an area on the front vaginal wall, all the way in and farther inside than the ( ostensibly also mysterious) G-spot. Due to the A-spot’s depth, it may be a bit more difficult to locate than the G-spot but learning more [...]

I want you to imagine a scenario: You’re in bed with a really hot lover, and you are in the middle of some really hot sex. You know the kind I am talking about: everything is clicking, you two are totally jiving with each other, and it couldn’t be going any better. In the midst [...]

“This clam is jammed!” I once quipped to a guy I was chatting up. I always try to talk about my vaginismus in humorous terms. It helps me normalize the condition, and it stops me from feeling compulsively apologetic or ashamed. I’m not broken. I’ve just got a haunted vagina. Maybe one day I’ll bust these [...]

Care & Feeding Instructions

Thoroughly inspect your new toy prior to use.

A Word About Tamper Seals

Please note that not all items will come with a manufacturer seal, we have limited control over this as every manufacturer has different practices. Please [...]

To our knowledge, people have been harnessing and using electricity for entertainment of many varieties since the 1840s, and just as other emerging technologies before it, it wasn’t long before people were using it for sexual purposes. From the Victorian Age of Electricity to today, electroplay has fascinated and captured the imagination. If you’ve never [...]

Dildo firmness is going to be an important factor in deciding which dildo is right for you. Personal “firmness” perception and experience will vary widely, so we have attempted to provide a scale by which you can make a more informed decision. A very soft dildo which measures 1.75” wide will differ in feel from [...]

There’s nothing wrong or shameful about getting old. After all, it’s something that’s going to happen to all of us, if it hasn’t already. Grey hairs, aches and pains, loss of flexibility, lack of energy, concerns about injury, feelings of isolation, hormonal fluctuations, and (especially as we’re going to be focusing on sex here) performance [...]

Freud’s theory on penis envy is questionable as a significant stage in sexual development, but who among us hasn’t imagined what it would be like to pee standing up? While it may not be a source of anxiety for most cis women, the idea of having a penis just seems a lot more convenient when [...]

Everyone has individual preferences when it comes to sex and dating, which can sometimes make it difficult to find the right ways to please your partner. Perhaps you’re used to doing certain things that your partner isn’t really into, or maybe your partner wants to try something you’ve never done before. How do you navigate [...]

Freud’s theory on penis envy is questionable as a significant stage in sexual development, but who among us hasn’t imagined what it would be like to pee standing up? While it may not be a source of anxiety for most cis women, the idea of having a penis just seems a lot more convenient when [...]

We’re all afraid of many things, whether we realize it or not; fear is a normal human experience. But it’s often not helpful or productive, especially when it interferes with our well-being...and pleasure. In particular, sex can be a very revealing, personal act—one that carries a lot of emotional weight. And so it’s a natural trigger [...]

One big difference between the Magma and all my other dildos is how little its head is tapered. A tapered head refers to the gradual increase in size that most dildos, as well as penises in real life, have, which makes insertion easier. But this toy has barely any taper, and starts almost immediately at its [...]

Since it’s my first time working with US retailer SheVibe, I also just wanted to give them a quick shout-out. SheVibe were one of the first stores I ever bought adult products from, and as such a lot of the toys featured in my early reviews were bought through them. I loved them then because [...]

Frankly, I am amazed by Blush Novelties uncanny knack for remaining at the forefront of supplying sex toy enthusiasts with the body-safe toys we clamor to have. Toys that we’re legitimately proud to own.Yet, what I find even more astonishing, is what I consider to be Blush’s, almost supernatural ability, to manufacture these trendy new toys [...]

Get ready to fulfill your fantasies with the Big Shot Silicone Vibrating Squirting Dildo, a life like multi-speed vibrator that shoots out the fluid of your choice on command!It’s hard to find good squirting dildos, especially ones that are made out of a body safe material. Because if I’m going to squirt something into myself, I [...]

How much texture can you ram on to the bulge of a single dildo? I swear Tantus were trying to find out when they made the Tantus Magma. Although that’s a bit unfair. The Tantus Magma is not a “throw texture at the schlong and see what works” kind of toy. Instead, Tantus took a long time refining the [...]

The CalExotics Packer Gear Silicone Packer is under $26. I feel like I should start with that, because that is the most affordable I have ever seen a silicone soft packer, and it’s what made me so excited about this packer’s existence in the first place. The closest I can think of is the Mr. Right [...]

The Satisfyer Petting Hippo Rechargeable Waterproof 12-Function G-Spot Vibrator is a vibrator primed for G-Spot stimulation but capable of so much more.You may know Satisfyer as the company that took the sex toy world by storm when they made affordable suction-based sex toys. And, for the longest time, these are the toys that have graced my [...]

Magical or mysterious—the G-spot may be described either way, depending on who you ask. It can take some practice to learn how to best stimulate this fascinating erogenous zone, but the G-spot is a real source of pleasure for many people with vaginas. G-spot play can be thrilling by itself. Plus, so many people with [...]

Now that I own a dildo sword, I figure, why not a dildo squirt gun too???The Big Shot Squirting Dildo by Evolved Novelties is the simplest “squirt gun” option on the US market that’s body-safe. Many less-hygienic options exist, but silicone ejaculating dildos have lagged far behind. And when I’m making a toy shoot fluids into [...]