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Midlife Is Not the End of the Story

Midlife Is Not the End of the Story


Not unlike adolescence, midlife is a time of profound and multi-faceted change. The hormones that once evenly distributing in our bodies without us thinking about it have now begun to shift. We may be discovering our desire plummeting, and even if we have the desire how our body responds to intimacy might change.

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Men in Midlife: The Quiet Shift

Men in Midlife: The Quiet Shift


Midlife for many people with penises and prostates can seem like just a gradual dimming of something you didn’t know how to name until it started.

The changes that come with midlife don’t arrive all at once - full force, without any warning. Much like perimenopause for women, there’s no single moment, no clear before and after. Instead, there’s a morning you notice it takes longer to get aroused. At night you might be more tired than interested in sex. That nagging back pain you used to get from time to time seems to have taken up permanent residency. You might see a pattern — and, for many men, this is deeply unsettling in a way a lot of people don’t feel equipped or emboldened to talk about. 

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Get The Most Out Of Your Penis Pumping Session

Get The Most Out Of Your Penis Pumping Session


A penis pump is a vacuum device that can help your penis get hard and stay hard for penetrative sex. The effects of using a pump will last about 10 - 15 minutes. This will vary with each individual. The results can last longer if you use a C-ring which helps maintain the erection by [...]
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Ball Stretchers 101 - How To Start

Ball Stretchers 101 - How To Start


There are a lot of instances in which you may be looking to try ball stretchers but don’t know where to start! Whether you’re exploring because you’ve heard it can increase testosterone production or you derive pleasure from ball play… ball stretchers are a fantastic new adventure to bring into the bedroom for either yourself, [...]
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Guide To Stimulating Gels For Boosting Libido

Guide To Stimulating Gels For Boosting Libido


One’s libido can decrease for a number of reasons, from just general stress to medication. However, that sometimes clashes with the want to experience pleasure and enjoy sexual activity. Stimulating gels or enhancement gels generally focus on warming, cooling, or buzzing sensation on or around the clitoris. Warming gels and warming lubricants can also be [...]
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Using Toys for Penises During Partnered Play

Using Toys for Penises During Partnered Play


A common misconception about sex toys is that they are only reserved for private, solo play. Furthermore, many believe a toy meant for someone with a particular set of genitals can only be used by that person and cannot be enjoyed by both. But much like how pleasing our partner (s) brings us pleasure even [...]
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Choose A Cock Ring

Choose A Cock Ring


So you’re curious about cock rings! Whether you’re interested in basic options or trying out something a little different or new, there are definitely a few things you need to know, and some considerations that need to be taken into account before you give them a try. Let’s slide right in (see what I did [...]
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