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Get The Most Out Of Your Penis Pumping Session

Get The Most Out Of Your Penis Pumping Session


SheVibe
A penis pump is a vacuum device that can help your penis get hard and stay hard for penetrative sex. The effects of using a pump will last about 10 - 15 minutes. This will vary with each individual. The results can last longer if you use a C-ring which helps maintain the erection by [...]
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Ball Stretchers 101 - How To Start

Ball Stretchers 101 - How To Start


Tawney Seren
There are a lot of instances in which you may be looking to try ball stretchers but don’t know where to start! Whether you’re exploring because you’ve heard it can increase testosterone production or you derive pleasure from ball play… ball stretchers are a fantastic new adventure to bring into the bedroom for either yourself, [...]
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10 Questions To Improve Your Dirty Talk

10 Questions To Improve Your Dirty Talk


Sugarcunt
Dirty talk is the conversational lubricant of sex. While some are comfortable in relative silence, or groaning leisurely, many of us are ensnared by the filth and eroticism offered from talking dirty in bed. Whether you’re a beginner, intermediate, or veteran smut-slinger, there are always new ways to improve your dirty talk. I humbly submit [...]
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Squirting 101 - What Is Squirting and How You Can Make It Happen

Squirting 101 - What Is Squirting and How You Can...


Kate Sloan
As anyone who’s ever seen a squirting scene in porn can tell you, it can be quite theatrical, shocking, and hot. It’s easy to understand why you might wonder, upon seeing such a spectacle, how you can learn to do this delightfully messy trick yourself. Like most sexual responses, squirting is probably something that some people [...]
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A Guide To Vaginal Fisting - Concerns, Techniques & Preparation

A Guide To Vaginal Fisting - Concerns, Techniques & Preparation


Super Smash Cache
Fisting is one of the most orgasmically intense sex acts you can do with just your hands - but it’s way more fun when you combine it with toys! Here’s a quick summary of what this post will cover: • Why are people into vaginal fisting? • The most common [...]
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Pro Crip Tips: Tips for Sex Workers Wanting to Work with Disabled Clients

Pro Crip Tips: Tips for Sex Workers Wanting to Work...


Andrew Gurza
As a disabled person who is sexually active, I have chosen to engage with sex workers to have most of my sexual needs met. This may not work for everyone, nor will it be a choice that everyone wants to make, so I can only speak from my experiences. On the blog today, I [...]
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"I want you to call me a Cocky Cripple in Bed": Why Dirty Talk that Centers Around My Disability is a Turn On, and How To Do This Correctly

"I want you to call me a Cocky Cripple in...


Andrew Gurza
When we think of dirty talk in bed, we may come up with language like: cock, pussy, whore, slut, etc. Many of us have reclaimed these words, and transformed them into something positive for each of us, and when sexual partners use these terms in bed with us, it can amp up the sexiness and [...]
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​Providing Your Disabled Lover With Agency & Access During Sex

Providing Your Disabled Lover With Agency & Access During Sex


Andrew Gurza
We don’t talk about sex and disability enough at all in popular culture. One of the spaces I think is particularly lacking when it comes to our discussion, is guides for non-disabled partners to understand how to better assist their hot disabled lover. Maybe you picked up a hot wheelchair user on Tinder who’s DTF, [...]
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Using Sex Toys During Pregnancy

Using Sex Toys During Pregnancy


Tawney Seren
During pregnancy it can be hard to know what is safe or not sexually. New pains and discomforts are discovered often as bodies change and hormones adjust and increase. How do we navigate sex toys and sex during pregnancy with these new adjustments? I found out I was pregnant and truly did not believe I would [...]
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