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The New York Toy Collective Shilo has become my #1 favorite silicone dildo. The toy’s bright, beautiful tie-dyed lime and turquoise create the most amazingly delicious dildo color combo I’ve laid eyes on. But besides its handsome good looks, Shilo is the dildo I very frequently reach for when it’s orgasm time. Why is it so good?Squishy [...]

Cooper Beckett started “Life on the Swingset” as a primer to the lifestyle for those just starting their exploration, those who are simply considering the idea, and those already on board this crazy ride on the swingset. He's assembled a wonderful collection of open minded and friendly people to contribute blogs, sex toy reviews, [...]

I’ve made no secret that I tend to dabble in BDSM and that I love to try new things, so when the Scandal Bed Restraints by CalEx came up for review, I jumped at the chance. A little bit about it: The Scandal Bed Restraints are fairly simple.  Each set comes with a long strap with a [...]

Well, this is going to be a hard review to write. I hate phoning it in, but the bulk of the review has already been written before – the Hot Octopuss PULSE II SOLO, whose counterpart is the PULSE II DUO, was originally just one toy: the Hot Octopuss Pulse. It was meant for solo OR couple’s play [...]

An Adriana is a weird thing, what with her ability to squirt but her lesser ability to orgasm from vaginal stimulation. In fact, G-spot stimulation is typically neutral to her and many times uncomfortable, even as it’s making her squirt. Perhaps it’s more than fitting that I set my eye on the Bouncer, one of the [...]

I had just about resigned myself to giving up all anal play. This idea made me really sad as I used to love playing with a plug or a partner from time to time. Between gaining weight in my belly area (which affects my reach) and my butt not being happy with, or friendly to, the last [...]

The future is now, and it is glorious. A future that involves comfortable, dysphoria-friendly, full-featured, washable, packing-friendly, underpants style strap-on harnesses for under $30. Yes, you read that right. The same price as a month of Crash Pad gets you an awesome pair of undies that you can pack AND fuck with. I love the future. The Packer Gear [...]

Despite what I may say in this review, I am excited about the  Rechargeable Magic Wand! But first, a little back-story. I’d used vibrators for a couple of years before I started reviewing. Even the few that worked for me took awhile; longer than I sometimes had patience for. So a whopping 1 month into being [...]

I really love position helpers.  So far I’ve mostly used cushions like Liberator wedges or the Little Deeper Cushion.  I love being able to try different positions, and these helpers take a standard position and change it every so slightly, but the slight change makes a huge difference.  The Sportsheets Plus Size Doggie Style Strap does exactly that. A [...]

Everyone talks about how great Liberator Throes are – and I totally agree. I have experienced vulval ejaculation (commonly referred to as female ejaculation, which is gender essentialist, or squirting, which just makes me think of water guns) once (since writing this, twice! But the second time not expecting it and not putting a throe down, womp [...]

Here at SheVibe we're obviously big on orgasms - and quests are only slightly lower on our sex geek list. That's why we're extremely honored to chat with Crista Anne, a beautiful soul inside and out. Educator, Blogger, kick ass Mommy - she's also a self-proclaimed Progressive Pleasurist, Intersectional Feminist and Sex-Positive Parent with her [...]

Tell Me How You Really Feel If my entire toy collection was threatened with being vaporized or shoved into a wood chipper or lost in another toypocalypse and I could only save three things, my current love affair with the Shilo by New York Toy Collective puts it well within the “oh, hell yes” category. The Basics Material: Platinum silicone, metal [...]

I love SheVibe. The wonderful folks at SheVibe are people I consider good friends, they were early supporters of Dildology, and we’ve had grand times at conferences together. When I told Sandra about #OrgasmQuest, she gave me free choice of their inventory on what I thought would help my quest the most. Immediately, I picked out The Liberator Ramp because [...]

The Njoy Eleven is a thing of legend. I think it was one of the first sex-utensils that I put on my wishlist, much like every other sex-writer, -worker, and reviewer on this here planet. It’s the sort of thing you dream about and stare longingly at in display cases while sighing wistfully at the price tag. Clocking in at eleven [...]

The product: Je Joue Uma G-Spot Vibrator This February, I introduced you guys to one of my favorite gadgets ever made: the Je Joue MiMi Soft. So, today (you know, before the Christmas shipping deadlines), I thought I’d show you a little bit more from the line. Je Joue is one of my all-time favorite tech brands–when you create a motor that [...]

For a while, I had my eye on the tiny cock gag. It’s cute, and it’s not perfectly round. Better for my mouth? I thought so. Plus, it’s made of silicone because it’s by Tantus. I’ve seen similar design made from PVC, but even if I didn’t care about cleanliness, who wants that smell/taste in [...]

This December SheVibe is proud to feature the amazing Sunny Megatron, an adult sexuality educator, public speaker, sex blogger, pleasure advocate and the host and executive producer of Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime. Voted one of the 6 most savvy sexologists in North America, Sunny guest lectures at universities and teaches sell-out sexuality workshops across [...]

The Boss by Fun Factory is an incredible, high-quality, silicone dildo that’s literally perfect for g-spotting. It’s perfect… it’s pleasurable… it’s pink! (As well as other colors.) This dildo is perfectly sized, and reminiscent of penises I would describe as “ideal” – both in length and girth. It’s a great size for thrusting, but also has enough [...]

Often, when Shevibe gets a new male product I get a message asking if I’d like to give it a shot so they’ve got a review on it. Often, because Shevibe is Shevibe and they like to carry the most bad ass stuff they can find it’s a product I was interested in anyway. The Cobra [...]

If you’ve ever hunted for your g-spot or studied to unlock the mysteries of squirting you’ve surely come across the Njoy Pure Wand. It may not be quite as iconic as the vibrator formally known as the Hitachi, but the Pure Wand sure has made a name for itself in the sex toy world as being the go-to for [...]

The PalmPower Wand by BSM Factory is a compact, corded body wand that packs quite a punch. Seriously, this wand means business. A really cool thing about this wand is that the head is covered with a removable silicone cap that makes this wand much easier to keep clean. And there are even additional attachment caps [...]

This September SheVibe had the chance to converse with the beautiful Kelly Shibari who hails from the long lineage of “Earth's Mightiest Heroes”… ok, not really, but she is most definitely a hero in the battle for female empowerment, sexuality and self-acceptance. The “BBW Performer Of The Year” is so much more than a vivacious, bodacious [...]

To put it simply, double ended dildos are fantastic.  For the price of one product, you have the pleasure of experiencing two different textures, shapes, sizes, etc. without forking over more money.  The Icicles No. 57 is a perfect example.  One end features a bulbous head that resembles a penis, and the opposite side has [...]