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​How Firm Is The Dildo I Want?

How Firm Is The Dildo I Want?

Dildo firmness is going to be an important factor in deciding which dildo is right for you. Personal “firmness” perception and experience will vary widely, so we have attempted to provide a scale by which you can make a more informed decision. A very soft dildo which measures 1.75” wide will differ in feel from a very firm dildo which measures 1.75” wide due the amount of give the soft item will have. Every body is wondrously different so a little trial and error may be in order!

What is Durometer Shore Hardness?

Shore Hardness is a measure of the firmness of a given material such as rubber, elastomer, silicone, or plastic. It is measured by the depth of indentation that is created on the material with a specified force. The measuring instrument is called a Durometer. Shore Hardness is named after its inventor, Albert Shore. There are up to 12 different scales which are used throughout manufacturing. The higher the value, the harder the material.

Readings can vary quite a bit and we’ve found that even within the same product line, there can be slightly different shore readings for similar products. For this reason, we have provided a shore range from Very Soft to Very Firm. These comparisons are an attempt to give you a virtual base point when comparing one firmness to another.

Items within the same shore scale may vary quite a bit depending on which end of the scale they fall. For example, a firm 7 may feel quite different from a firm 12. There is no perfect way to communicate exactly how an item will feel to you personally. As with sound and vibration, firmness is subjective to an individual’s experiences and tastes.

The information provided is the most accurate information we have at the time an item is added to the site. If you are interested in an item that does not have a shore rating on its product page, please reach out to us prior to ordering at: CustomerSupport@SheVibe.com

SHORE HARDNESS SCALE

0 To 6: Very Soft

7 To 12: Soft

13 To 19: Firm

20+: Extra Firm

All Dual Density Dildos

These items are usually on the softer, "more realistic" side with shore durometer between 0 - 12. They have a soft outer layer with a firmer (but not necessarily hard) inner core in an attempt replicate an actual penis. Click on the link and refine your search by Manufacturer, Length and/or Width -  Dual Density Dildos