So, for starters, I love the look of this toy. I'm not sure why but I guess it's because I favor girthy over lengthy dildos. Something about the proportions makes it downright adorable! Even though I'm sure it's the same girth as the normal 5" models, the more info panel says as much, it tricks my brain into thinking it's more substantial. (I don't have a regular 5" model but I tried some at my local Frisky Business, squishing the samplers, and I remember thinking they seemed average but they looked thin.) That said, it's on the firmer side, and with all the texture and the big coronal ridge (bigger head overall), I really wish this model came in Soft or Dual Density. You'll notice it; vaginally it pops nicely although it can be a bit much sometimes, and this is even more true for anal. (I also REALLY wish their Thick 5" came in Soft or Dual Density versions too, then it'd be perfect but as is I find that one a little too firm; this size is a little more forgiving in the same firmness.) It sucks up a lot of lube too and requires a little extra attention while cleaning. The suction cup seems pretty strong though I've only tried it horizontally, not vertically. If the length is more important than the aesthetic, I'd recommend getting a 5" Coloursoft or Dual Density, though I'll note that with my hand alone, at this size I couldn't feel enough of a difference in the squish between those two options. It might be that the Dual Density would be easier to position if it were in a harness but I can't confirm and so if you want to save a little money, the Soft version is probably fine. If you want a girthier model and you're fine with a firmer, textured dildo, I'd recommend the 5" Thick! It's perfect for filling you up. I LOVE the girth on that one; it's roughly the same width as their 8" model but it's shorter and easier to thrust. (If only it could be squishier...) :) I personally love the fantasy colors NS Novelties uses and I'm picky when it comes to shades of purple. This color pops! It's vibrant and leaning towards the reddish end of the scale (rather than blue), maybe a Fuschia... it reminds me of a flower. The pink and blue are also very nice though for some reason I think I prefer their purple overall. The 4" also comes in vanilla and black, in case you find the other colors jarring. TL;DR This is a cute, short, average girth dildo with good texture and a firm feel at a very reasonable price but I wish it had squishier options. If you have issues with insertion or texture or you prefer a softer dildo, I'd look elsewhere.